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Twin flames Runners & Chasers Cycle Reversed?

August 23, 2021

Twin flames Runner and Chaser phases can be confusing.

There is a lot confusion with understanding the Runner and Chaser phases. Twin flames feel an overwhelming energy when they first meet. This is an extreme emotion that can instantly turn to one Twin running from their other half. This can happen without warning at any given moment. It happens mainly because their connection is extremely intense and they both may not be ready. Twin flame Runners try to disconnect the connection. It is so extreme that they may not know how to handle it, many times ignoring it, denying and both may try to run from it. Disconnection forces them to examine and search deep inside themselves to uncover their deep dark shadows that may uncover some fear-based energies. It difficult to face what they are feeling from their divine counterpart. But they are literally running from themselves. The Chaser will feel broken-hearted, feeling trapped, and think they did something wrong. This is very painful for both the Runners and the Chasers. The twin flame Chaser tries to make amends and wanting to bring the Runner back into their life. They do whatever it takes. Not realizing this can actually do the opposite. They sacrifice their own needs and self-sabotaging their own happiness to chase their Twin. This creates more pain by chasing and trying to find a way to make things right. They both are actually in this together and energetically help one another to come into a full alignment when they work on themselves. This is very extreme. It’s actually what brings Twin flames into union. The Twin flames mirrors one another. They both are learning valuable lessons and what they need to face to become their authentic self.  There are also two parts, the divine masculine and the divine feminine. It’s best not to label who would be divine masculine or feminine. They can reverse the roles and many times they can reflect on both internally. When Twin flames first meet, the Runner normally is the Chaser and vice versa. They both actually reverse the roles until they finally find one another and as they become more grounded, their roles are reversed once more. Twin flames and including many Soulmates need to love themselves in order to find union with their divine counterpart. They examine themselves as they heal and reflecting on what is necessary to let go of dysfunctional patterns.

There is a lot confusion with understanding the Runner and Chaser phase.


Twin flames feel an overwhelming energy when they first meet. This is an extreme emotion that can instantly turn to one Twin running from their other half. This can happen without warning at any given moment. It happens mainly because their connection is extremely intense and they both may not be ready.

Twin flames Runners try to disconnect the connection.

It is so extreme that they may not know how to handle it, many times ignoring it, denying it and both may try to run from it.

Disconnection forces them to examine and search deep inside themselves to uncover their deep dark shadows that may uncover some fear-based energies. It difficult to face what they are feeling from their divine counterpart. But they are literally running from themselves. The Chaser will feel broken-hearted, feeling trapped, and think they did something wrong.

There has been confusion with understanding the Runner and Chaser phase.

This is very painful for both the Twin flames Runners and the Chasers.

The twin flame Chaser tries to make amends and wants to bring the Runner back into their life. They do whatever it takes. Not realizing this can actually do the opposite. They sacrifice their own needs and self-sabotaging their own happiness to chase their Twin. This creates more pain by chasing and trying to find a way to make things right.

They both are in this together. They energetically help one another to come into a full alignment when they work on themselves.

Twin flames separation. What happens during the Twin flame/Soulmate Chaser and Runner phase. There is a period of separation that can be brutally painful for both divine counterparts. It’s a time when Twinflames need to have total solitude in order to heal and release emotional detachment from their old past wounds. This part of the separation feels as if you’ve been completely ripped apart and something cannot be replaced. But understand that this is not what is happening. It’s part of the process in order to release dysfunctional energies in order to merge as one with your divine counterpart. When Twin flames first meet, they are looking at the windows of the Soul in each other‘s eyes. A very magical and mysterious moment for both Twins. There is also a magnetic force that is pulling them constantly together as one. The one Twin may get scared and run because of their own fear of seeing their true self in someone else’s eyes. This is part of the release and healing that needs to take place. The Chaser feels left into an emotional withdrawal, feeling as if they did something wrong. There are many different types of stages with both Twin flames and Soulmates prior to divine union, as they try to understand one another and come to an alignment. Their soul journey can sometimes be very complicated but actually is part of the process in order to reach a higher frequency of the 5D. Coming to a perfect alignment is not just with our Twin, but it is actually within ourselves. As we’ve become more aligned to who we are and what we need to do for ourselves in the future. Divine union is about healing and awakening to your inner truth. There are shadow and inner child work that is usually done during the healing process. Waking up the inner child allows you to become your authentic self with your Twin. In this process, you will experience love, sensitivity, happiness in essence with looking at everything with adult eyes. Twin flames realize their true purpose. When we bring up past all memories, sometimes there can be sadness and along with sadness, there is hurt and sometimes pain. It is a releasing and surrendering process that both Twins must go through. Learning about who you are and letting go of ego can help you correct mistakes and start over. This is necessary in order to grow and evolve in this World that we live in. Many times we are holding onto unnecessary anger and insecurity, causing you to self-sabotage your own true happiness. Letting go of past old patterns and starting fresh is the first step to healing and coming to an alignment with your Twin. Forgiveness and also forgive yourself. Forgiveness is an extremely vital and important part of healing. Holding onto grudges is never a good thing, and nobody can tell you what to do. This is something that you need to do in order to heal and move forward. You can’t find love if you’re still holding onto excess baggage. We all have a past, but this is a time to let go and release negativity that you are still holding onto it. It prevents you from shining your true light from within. Lifting your soul vibration, as you keep it to a higher level in love. This will automatically accelerate the process of bringing love and happiness into your life. Focusing on yourself and knowing that you did nothing wrong, you did not cause anything that created the Runner & Chaser phase. Focus on the inner light inside you, and saying positive affirmations every morning. This will help accelerate everything that you have from within, to externally shine your light to whoever you meet. Attracting positivity and love will automatically help you heal and get past any obstacles you may be facing. Just focus on yourself!

This is very extreme. It’s actually what brings Twin flames into union.


The Twin flames mirror one another. They both are learning valuable lessons and what they need to face to become their authentic self. 

There are also two parts, the divine masculine and the divine feminine. It’s best not to label who would be divine masculine or feminine. They can reverse the roles and many times they can reflect on both internally.

When Twin flames first meet, the Runner normally is the Chaser and vice versa. They both actually reverse the roles until they finally find one another and as they become more grounded, their roles are reversed once more.

Twin flames and many Soulmates need to love themselves in order to find union with their divine counterpart. They examine themselves as they heal and reflect on what is necessary to let go of dysfunctional patterns.

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