Runner and Chaser Stages?
There are many Soul connections (Soulmates, Twin Flames, Karmic, Twin Souls, Twin rays and many others)and we do have more than one that we meet in each life.
They can be almost anyone in our lives. Trying to define and understand each one can be confusing. I suggest that it’s best to never go searching for your specific ideal soulmate, looking for the twin flame, do we share a past life? or who is my twin Ray? These are some of the common questions that I’m asked almost every day.
Twin flames are actually the reflection of each other.
Twin flames go through series of challenges and tests constantly in order to help one another through their soul journey. The intensity is extreme with twin flames, mainly because they can see their reflection in each other’s eyes.
Soulmates can also share a very strong soul bond with each other. The Twin Flame has a higher intensity of negativities and chaotic energy in order to get through their own life lessons.
There are many soulmates that share the same intensity of energy, reflecting it or wanting to share the level together. Twin flames are constantly working on themselves simultaneously and many times separated, mainly because of the reflecting energies with each other and opening up their deepest fears. They are able to bring out inner emotions, this also wakes up past emotional wounds.
Runner and Chaser Stages?
Okay now that you do understand some things about soul connections and the differences between soulmates and twin flames.
Let’s talk more about the phases that all Soul Connections can go through (not just Twin Flames). The runner and chaser stages happens with all Soulmate and soul bond connections. This is a very common and difficult process that they face. No one has clear answers of why the runner and chaser stages happen or how to prevent it.
A runner is when they have emotional conflict and insecurities. They all of a sudden become emotionally overwhelmed and can’t understand what is happening to them. This is what creates the need to run away from their other half.
There are many things that create this trigger which causes the runner stage, but they are actually running from something deep inside themselves and not the soul connection that they share with that person.
The runner is not completely awake or aware of what they’re feeling deep inside.
The one thing they know is that they are terrified and begin to run away. The chaser is not exactly chasing; they are awake and aware that there is something stronger between them too. But many times, they try to help the Runner understand and see their connection, but may actually create more damage with the need to run longer.
The chaser is only trying to help, but the chaser can also feel deeper feelings of pain trying to understand why the runner ran away. Runners are actually going through the same type of situation. In a different way of course, they are lost and hurting inside.
Runner and Chaser are stages that can go through a series of tests. This can last many times several months to even years. I highly recommend to never try to communicate or nudge them verbally.
Trying to understand why runners can be with other people can be extremely difficult, this does occasionally happen and has nothing to do with love or spirituality. Runners can continue to run and try to cling on anything that they can find to hide the pain.
Runners want to feel safe but will never feel safe if they’re running from something inside themselves. They need to look into their heart, then let go of the fear-based energies that they carry. Many times they can see it but don’t understand it. This is when they need to come to a divine awakening and finally let go.
When the runner starts to become more aware, there is a process that will bring them back to their home.
Many times it’s a Mission for them to find what they need to do in order to come to a divine union. There are many challenges, it is meant to help them to correct their lives in order to see clearly what they need, in order to purify themselves spiritually and come together.
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