This is very common and a pattern that happens with divine connections.
Coming into incarnation into this lifetime, We don’t have choices with the families we are brought up with, many times there are dysfunctional type of energy that we are brought up with.
There are also certain issues that some of us have to deal with while growing up and it’s a struggle. Breaking the cycles of abuse and abandonment can be a very emotional time. Some will carry excess baggage in each relationship without realizing it. Creating the Narcissist Energy.
Some people can grow up with a complex blocking off the world and only focusing on themselves and no one else. Commonly referred to the narcissistic behavior.
The soul connection (Soulmate,twinflames, divine partner and etc.) searches for a higher purpose in their life.
The 1st sign of a narcissistic energy is when they’re trying to control every situation. Their expectations are very high and no one can fulfill that emotional gap. This does not mean that they are actual narcissistic but take behavior of one in order to cope with life. Many times your divine partner is actually very broken and is unable to deal with the emotional side of love and commitments. In return they are controlling and demanding every situation.
The Narcissistic energy also influences them to be inconsiderate and not showing any type of love or emotions to you or anyone around them. Many times they say things that they don’t mean and will actually forget that even said it.
You ask why am I with a narcissist?
Why can’t I break away and find love. Simple fact is that you were sent to help one another in some type of way. Many times soulmates are brought together to create an impact in one and another’s life. Also there can be toxic energy that can create a narcissistic behavior pattern as well.
Then there are soulmates who are brought together to unfold something inside ourselves. So that we can do more than just live a happy life together, but spiritually evolve and grow.
There’s so much confusion and many different types of theories about this topic, I don’t want to contradict anyone. Just shed some light on, that not everyone is an actual narcissist but the energy is an influence. They can change at 360 degrees. We all have them in our lives, sometimes they need to awaken to realize there is more out there than just themselves.
I always talk about loving yourself first and this is true. When you love yourself you will also see that you love more than just one person around you.
A true narcissistic doesn’t really love himself or herself because of the love that they have for themselves, they would find love for everyone else.
I’ve always found that narcissistic energy was actually a mask or shield of some kind that instead of opening the door to love and bringing love into their life, they actually are insecure and camouflaging it with an ego-based energy.
This will carry many traits of the narcissistic behavior. When you feel that your divine soulmate is expressing a narcissistic type of energy.
Usually this is a recovery phase and an awakening is necessary in order to heal and evolve their souls into a divine union. Many times divine soulmates need to experience distructive dynamics in order to heal prior to the divine union. This can be very intense and painful process before they awaken.
The best thing to do with a narcissistic energy is not giving in. As I’ve always said loving yourself first, you should never let criticism and negativity be thrown at you anytime! But you should always defend yourself without reciprocating the same negative energy. This only makes the narcissistic energy grow and nothing will ever be resolved.
I know this is a very sensitive topic, many times you just need to take a break or step back from the relationship and allow them to realize that they are expressing narcissistic behavior. It won’t be just you noticing it but others as well and once they’re alone they will realize and awaken.
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